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January 21, 2012
...He hates gay guys… But why?
Anonymous: Hi. I’m a guy. I hate guy gays. Idk why I just do. Like I don’t have a problem with girl gays but with guys. It just makes me angry. Do you have any idea why? It’s ok if you can’t answer.
Weezy: Only you can really answer that question. Sometimes straight guys can feel threatened by gay guys. Here’s why… Even straight people can find there to be something appealing or intriguing about somebody of the same sex. Straight girls do not feel uneasy about this. They will go flocking to a Taylor Swift concert, screaming their lungs out with no concern that someone may think this seems a little gay. They either have a crush on her, or they want to be just like her or they look up to her. They love her. Who cares? It really doesn’t matter.
Do you think a straight boy would ever even admit that he thinks Justin Bieber is talented? Hardly. He may think it. But he won’t say it and he’s probably terrified of the thought… “Justin Bieber plays guitar AND drums, AND piano! Does this make me gay???!!!”
No, it doesn’t and if it did, so what? Straight guys finally admitted that The Beatles were awesome, back in 1966, and they’ve all been much happier ever since.
So, if you are a straight guy, I do understand your question. I don’t believe you hate anyone. I believe you are concerned about who you are. Once you understand and accept yourself, you will have no problem understanding and accepting everyone else.
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blixums said:
The concept of potentially being a sexual target in some way is threatening to people, straight men specifically, who aren’t in a system where they are forced to deal with this DAILY.
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defy-gravity said:
it’s patriarchy/socialization; homophobia is rooted in sexism. why would a man want to give up his privilege of dominating women to be dominated by another man? very threatening to the patriarchy. this anon is prob socialized by patriarchal culture.
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