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October 30, 2009
...The Guy Who Flirts With Her Best Friend
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Question From Samantha: Hi, my name is Samantha and I have a question about a guy. I like this guy and he told his best friend that he liked me a while ago, but he always flirts with my best friend, and never me. It gets me very jealous and I was just wondering if he seriously does like me because I have a crush on him, but it is just not making sense to me.
Response: Samantha, this is a very cloudy situation. In fact, the only thing clear is your need for clarity. This guy may be immature, he may be insecure, he may be uncertain, or, he may just be a jerk. But you like him so it’s your job to get in there and get some answers. You can either a) ask his friend why he flirts with your friend or b) ask him what the heck is going on. My vote is for b). If you ask his friend, you will get indirect information. If you ask him, you’ll get his immediate reaction to your directness. Your question to him will be simple. Ask it when you are alone with him in a non-threatening, flirty manner. ”Chuck says you like me, so why are you flirting with Jane?” Or something to that effect. This lets him know that you like him and that if he’s trying to make you jealous, it’s working. Now he can stop. If he’s a jerk, he won’t stop. If any of my first three guesses are correct, he’ll be ready to show you he likes you or you’ll, hopefully, be ready to move on.
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