January 16, 2010

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How Do You Know If A Boy Likes You?

Me giving advice.  You have been warned.

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Question From Victoria: Hey I’m Victoria. I turned 13 in November. And I was wondering how can you tell if a guy likes you & I love reading, writing, and giving advice! I always wanted to be an architect but writing has always been a pasion for me, I just started reading your book. I will write back when I have complete the book. :)

Response: Excellent, Victoria.  Keep exploring the areas that light you up and inspire you to learn more.  Don’t worry too much about what you will “be.”  You can be many things.

As for your question about boys.  It’s very difficult to know if a boy likes you at your age.  He may say or do many different things to remain cool in the eyes of his friends.  He may say he doesn’t like you, while he does.  He may say he does like you while he’s still unsure.  The best way to approach matters of the heart at 13 is to just get to know the person.  I know that sounds too simple but it’s true.  Life is coming at you very quickly.  Even if he thinks he doesn’t like you today, he may be crazy about you tomorrow, or next week or by the time you get to high school.  So, try not to worry too much about labels like “boyfriend” or “girlfriend” or “like” vs. “like like.” Focus on talking to the boy.  The rest will come along when it’s supposed to.

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