January 19, 2010

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A Question About Teasing and Self Esteem

This time I am qualified to give this advice because I was this girl…

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Question From Mandy: hi! so this is my first time asking for advice and my problem is that i constantly get teased by several people and i know that they’re doing it for fun but it really bothers me and gets my self esteem/confidence down and I feel bad about myself all the time.

Response: Alright, let me ask you this: Why are you giving these people the power to make you feel bad about yourself?  They deserve nothing less.  Here’s the good news about being the teasee.  You will move past this stage of your life with no regrets, on into your promising and wonderful future.  They will live with the memory of being a jerk to you and they will not get over their guilt until they one day muster the courage to friend you on Facebook and ask you for forgiveness.  You will be a happy, successful person who will offer that forgiveness.

Getting back to the present tense.  You are a sweet, wonderful, amazing, caring person who would never tease anyone.  They are the immature followers of some small minded, insecure bully queen bee.  You have everything to feel good about.  You are the person I would want to know.

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